Write 200 words and call me in the morning

Sometimes writing is therapeutic, just sitting down to get things out that are bugging you or frustrating you. Sometimes it publishable material, other times it’s better kept to yourself because it could incriminate you with your psychopathic tendencies.

I don’t even know if I’ll post this when I’m done, but I needed to write.

Today was a tough day at work and I let it get to me very quickly. I am trying to take control of the situation, but sometimes, a lot of times I let situations take control of me. I did that today and caused myself to suffer and react.

Don’t you hate it sometimes when God uses situations to teach you the very thing you asked to learn more about? I am learning to listen to the voice of instruction in those situations more often than ignore it so it doesn’t have to be repeated over and over again until I do.

Today was one of those days, and tomorrow will be better but will probably have to learn something else.

Writing is therapeutic.

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OneWord365: Identity

This year I have decided to participate in OneWord365, something that I am both excited and a little apprehensive about doing.  I spent a lot of time thinking, reflecting, and praying about the one word that I wanted to spend 2012 focusing on and only one thing kept coming to mind over and over again. Initially I just thought it was me because it is something that I have continually struggled with and I’m always working on, so I was trying to think of something grander, more “spiritual” and then Tuesday happened.

I was back at work after having over a week off for the holidays and was just having  a hard time getting back into the swing of things all while being introduced to OneWord365 and trying to come up with something. Then, at the end of the day, I found out that I was being talked about in a negative way by people I didn’t report to and a group of people who I don’t even work with had been trying to get me in trouble at work. I was really frustrated and angry about the situation, I honestly had no idea what I had done to either party to cause them to think of me that way and I let it eat at me all night. The next morning I was thinking about OneWord365 again and  that’s when it hit me: am I going to let what others say and think about me define my identity or am I going to find my identity in the One who created me?

So this year I am going to  search the Word, seek God’s face and anchor my identity as a man, a husband, a father, a friend and a believer in the Truth.

I’m excited about where this journey will take me and, yes, I’m apprehensive about what I may learn and changes I may have to make. Nonetheless, I’m inviting you to travel this path with me.

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2011 in review

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2011 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

A San Francisco cable car holds 60 people. This blog was viewed about 2,100 times in 2011. If it were a cable car, it would take about 35 trips to carry that many people.

Click here to see the complete report.

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Windshields Cleaners: A Proven Method for Friendship

Most of my life was spent alone. Sure I had acquaintances that I called “friends” but it was nothing more than a few words throughout the day at school or church. I didn’t have accountability, friendship, that one thing that keeps us going, knowing there is someone we can depend on. Then that all changed in the fall of 1999 during my freshman year of college.

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Am I Crazy?

Some of you would probably answer that too quickly (Adam) but hear me out before you make the final judgment on my sanity. As you have probably been able to tell from my past posts, God has been doing something in me over the past several months: in a nutshell, teaching me to embrace who He has made me to be and to jump into those things he has built into me head first, regardless of the risk. It’s both a scary and an amazing place to be…I’m still figuring out.

One thing that I have loved to do for years is write. I don’t think I’m the greatest writer out there by any means, but I love to write and it is something, outside of this blog, that I have mostly ignored for a long time, a really long time. It is also something that I am starting to embrace again as something that has been placed there by God, something I need to at least try to focus on and see what happens.

This is where the crazy part comes in. There is something that happens every year during the month of November called NaNoWriMo. Don’t know what that is? Well, to decipher, it means National Novel Writing Month and there are people from all over the world that participated every year (you can check out more about it at their website by clicking here) and the goal is to write a novel, 50,000 words, in the month of November. It may seem daunting and outlandish, and that’s because it is, but it is something I have committed myself to doing and it starts in 3 days….THREE DAYS!

I’m scared out of my mind and may have bitten off more than I can chew, but I also know that if I don’t take risks, even with the chance of failure, that I will not succeed. I may not finish the 50,000 words and I am not planning on publishing or allowing anyone to read what I write, but I want to challenge myself to do something that I know deep inside that I am passionate about.

This is where I need your help – I am putting all this out there because I NEED you to hold me accountable to this. The more people who know I am doing this, the more I will feel obligated to finish this goal to completion. Facebook, tweet, or email me to check in on me throughout the month of November to see how I’m doing. Text me if you have my number. Encourage me, because I am going to need it to get through this.

So there you have it…..am I crazy? Probably, but I’m OK with a little bit of crazy if it means even coming to a partial realization of the gifts that God has given me to be who He created me to be.

What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done? What are you willing to do to bring out God’s gifts in you?

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First World Facebook

 

What you see above caused a lot of controversy and snide comments across Facebook and Twitter, both of my feeds were full of them – as they are every time Facebook so much as changes it’s font. Sure they have been natorious for making changes to layout, how you comment, chat features, etc but so is every other large social media outlet. My feeds were also full this week with people upset about the changes made to the iPhone app, Instagram. Personally, I actually enjoy the changes to both. They are very popular social media services that are constantly updating and tweeking and making changes to not only give users a better experience, but to stay ahead of the game in the fast changing world of social media. As several people put it this week – It’s free, if you don’t like it then don’t use it. Harsh maybe, but it’s true. Now I’m going to get harsh also, and I am including myself in this harshness.

I tweeted about this yesterday and it has been running around in my head ever since, so what else should I do but blog about it? Sometimes these blog posts are to express and opinion, sometimes they are to challenge, and sometimes they are just a cathartic process for myself – today’s post falls under all three categories.

Yesterday I saw posts and statuses ranging from “I hate Facebook” to “I’m leaving Facebook and going to Google+”. I saw post after post after post about how much people disliked the changes, how it was annoying and an inconvenience and these people spent several minutes out of their day commenting and interacting with others about how they all wanted to forget Facebook even existed. They were passionate about it, vocal about it, and made sure that it was made known exactly how they felt. I’m guilty of this too and have engaged in similar conversations about things just as trivial, we all do.

In light of all that, here is the question I pose to you and to myself: Why aren’t we just as passionate and vocal about the social injustices of this world that break the heart of God? Why are we quicker to judge, vent, and post all over the internet about changes to social media outlets, our lattes and our internet connection than we are about children who are going to bed not knowing when they will eat again? Why?

Here are some statistics:

  • In 2010 there were 925 million people who went hungry everyday (1)
  • In 2009 there were an estimated 22.5 million living with HIV in Sub-Saharan Africa, of those 2.3 million were children, and 1.3 million died from AIDS. (2)
  • In 2009 16.6 million children were orphaned due to AIDS in Africa – let that number sink in a little. That’s 16.6 million boys and girls without any parents. (2)
  • Read the statistics at this link on domestic human sex trafficking, it will make you sick.

That’s just a few of the issues.  When we read those statistics it should do something in us that causes the same, if not a greater, reaction that it does when we don’t like the changes that Facebook makes to our social media outlet. We should start flooding Twitter and Facebook with calls to act, to have the heart and mind of Christ for those impacted by these injustices. I’m not saying that I alone can change world hunger or an AIDS epidemic or human trafficking, but if we (the body of Christ) begin to take issue with these injustices together then we can make a difference. I believe that we will.

What are you passionate about? Are there any organizations you support that others could come alongside to help bring hope to those impacted by these injustices?

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Patriotism and Faith: Contradiction?

I knew when this post came to my mind that it was going to ruffle some feathers, but decided that I would go forward with it anyway. This is my blog, this is where I share my feelings, opinions, and journey with the few of you that read and what a better way to come back after almost 2 months of not posting anything.
This is a very touchy topic in general, but becomes even more explosive in the church setting when it seems that everything gets shrouded with an adjective of  ”faith-based” and “Christian”. What is this topic? Politics. Just the sight of that word caused some of you to recoil, shut your eyes and think happy thoughts. Well, let’s come back and talk about it for a few minutes.
I’ll be the first to tell you that I am far from being an expert in politics. I don’t follow polls, I don’t read every article out there about current politicians or who’s running for Republican primary at the moment, but I do try to keep somewhat up to date with what is going on. I think it’s important to know who is out there, what they stand for, and what your tax dollars are being spent on and it’s perfectly acceptable to voice your opinion about the leaders in power, compare their actions against Scripture, and still be respectful at the same time.  It’s part of what makes this country great is our ability to publicly voice our opinions about who is in power, there are a lot of people in other parts of the world that could get executed for that same thing.
Here is where things start to get murky for me, how does our faith and our politics/patriotism merge without politics becoming our faith? I thought of this again this past weekend during the different services and programs going on for 9/11. This has nothing to do with 9/11 or the events that happened on that day, but that day and remembering that day does cause patriotism to boil from our spirits more than most other events for this generation, so it came up this weekend. Our church does a service to honor veterans and first responders ever year, this year they did it on 9/11 since the 10th anniversary happened to fall on a Sunday. During the service, the wife of a state representative who is a believer sang “God Bless America” and something happened as I look around that I have seen many times in different churches I attended over the years: people started raising their hands in worship.  This gets me every time. I will admit that there are songs that can be worshipful for some that I don’t get and that’s OK, but whether it’s “God Bless America”, “The Star Spangled Banner”, or “God Bless the USA” I don’t feel that these are songs of worship. Songs that talk about battle, God blessing our country that we love, being proud to be an American – again, none of those things are bad, but are they songs that bring us closer to God so we worship Him or do they just make us more proud of our country?
Politics, the Republican party, and the church in America has become so intertwined over the last few decades that it’s hard to tell where one ends and the other begins sometimes.  We become so engrossed with promoting a certain party or a certain politician within the church that we start associating our patriotism with our faith and we forget a few things:
1. Jesus is not a Democrat, Republican, or Independent and, as some hipsters like to claim, I don’t even think He was/is a socialist – He was the Son of God who came to earth as a man to take on our sins so that we could have life more abundantly and in turn we would love others the same way He loves us.
2. Jesus is not an American and does not prefer or promote America over any other nation in the world due to our patriotism or repeated singing of “God Bless America”.
3. Romans 13:1 – next time you get angry about who gets voted in and start blaming liberals, the devil, or the lack of political activism in the church remember the part of this verse that says “The authorities that exist have been established by God.” (NIV). Regardless of who you think is the right or the wrong person in office and how much you like them or don’t like them, God is in control, not you.
Let me end this ridiculously long post that I could probably split into several parts with this: I love my country and being an American. I don’t take that lightly, nor will I ever take it lightly.  I am blessed because GOD placed me where I am. I have family members who have either served or are currently serving in the armed forces and I am deeply indebted to them for their service and the protection of the freedom that we do have, I will never forget their service and sacrifice for what I enjoy every day. What I am trying to get across is that we have to tread very lightly when it comes to political involvement in the church – our goal is to love God and love our neighbors as ourselves, give to the poor, stand up for the voiceless and forgotten, be a voice for the unborn (which includes more Christians being willing to adopt, but that’s another post in itself), and being the hands and feet of Jesus to a world that is battered, abused, and left for dead.  Sometimes that means getting involved in politics and local government because it’s unavoidable, I get that but that should not be our priority when we do what the church was called to do.
Where do you stand? Should the church and politics be coexistent or only when necessary? Sound of below.
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Criminally Cautious

Matthew 25:14-27 (The Message)

14-18“It’s also like a man going off on an extended trip. He called his servants together and delegated responsibilities. To one he gave five thousand dollars, to another two thousand, to a third one thousand, depending on their abilities. Then he left. Right off, the first servant went to work and doubled his master’s investment. The second did the same. But the man with the single thousand dug a hole and carefully buried his master’s money.

19-21“After a long absence, the master of those three servants came back and settled up with them. The one given five thousand dollars showed him how he had doubled his investment. His master commended him: ‘Good work! You did your job well. From now on be my partner.’

22-23“The servant with the two thousand showed how he also had doubled his master’s investment. His master commended him: ‘Good work! You did your job well. From now on be my partner.’

24-25“The servant given one thousand said, ‘Master, I know you have high standards and hate careless ways, that you demand the best and make no allowances for error. I was afraid I might disappoint you, so I found a good hiding place and secured your money. Here it is, safe and sound down to the last cent.’

26-27“The master was furious. ‘That’s a terrible way to live! It’s criminal to live cautiously like that! If you knew I was after the best, why did you do less than the least? The least you could have done would have been to invest the sum with the bankers, where at least I would have gotten a little interest.

How many times have we heard this verse? In church on Sunday mornings, in Sunday school growing up, or from our parents.  It is used for different things, a lesson in investing wisely or a lesson in using the gifts that God has given us, both of which I think apply and are good lessons.  But I was reading this verse the other day and something stood out to me that I hadn’t noticed before that hit me hard because it is exactly how I had been living my whole life.  Let’s take a closer look:

The third servant was given a 1,000 dollars, or 1 talent, depending on your version of the Bible, to do whatever he pleased with it and he decides that he’s going to bury it. Why? Here is his response: “I was afraid I might disappoint you..”  Ugh. That hits hard.  That has been my driving force for so long, fear of disappointment. Fear of disappointing others, fear of disappointing God…disappointment. How many times have we done that? We hide something, hide ourselves, or just hide in general because we don’t want to disappoint God.

God has given us all gifts, talents, abilities.  Whether it is preaching sermons as a pastor or writing web code for amazing web sites, He has gifted us with something or things that we will either use and flourish in or we hide and take on this mantra of false humility that we’re not really good at anything.  The truth is, we all probably know exactly what the gift or ability that God has given us and we either try to hide from it because it scares us or we refuse to admit that God has gifted us with anything.

We have two options with this reality, we can either continue to hide our gifts, our talents because we are afraid that we are going to screw up and disappoint God or we can partner with God and allow Him to work through us to do amazing things to advance His kingdom with the talent and gifts He has already placed inside of us.  Read what the master says to the two servants who invested and doubled their money “From now on be my partner.” He wants to PARTNER with us.

Let me share with you what God shared with me about this: God spoke to me clearly when I read this “Brandon, you’re the third servant. Stop hiding what I have given you and take a risk and partner with me so I can multiply what I have given to you.” I don’t want to be the third servant, I refuse to hide what God has invested in me out of fear of disappointment.  God wants me to partner with Him and take a risk, I may fall flat on my face sometimes, but God will not leave me there and He will continue to work out this gift in me.

I love to write, I am not great, but it has always been something that I love and have always wanted to become better at.  So here I am telling you that I am going to start taking risks, put myself out there, and partner with God to develop this gift in me so that I will stop saying that I am hiding this gift because I am afraid of disappointing Him.  He will not be disappointed in something He gave to me.

What gift are you hiding out of fear of disappointment? What gift are you using right now?

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Dictionary Discussion

Starting this week I’m going to start a new series called “Dictionary Discussion”. It’s going to be simple yet, hopefully, start a lot of discussion. What I am going to do is present a word with it’s meaning as listed in the dictionary and then hand it over to everyone to discuss that word and it’s meaning, both the literal meaning and what the word means to you personally. This is a work in progress, so let’s see how this goes.

This weeks word is:

church

[church] –noun

1.a building for public Christian worship.
2.public worship of god or a religious service in such a building:to attend church regularly.
3.( sometimes initial capital letter) the whole body of Christian believers; Christendom.
4.( sometimes initial capital letter) any division of this body professing the same creed and acknowledging the sameecclesiastical authority; a Christian denomination: theMethodist Church.
5.that part of the whole Christian body, or of a particular denomination, belonging to the same city, country, nation,etc.
6.a body of Christians worshiping in a particular building orconstituting one congregation: She is a member of thischurch.
7.ecclesiastical organization, power, and affairs, as distinguished from the state: separation of church and state;The missionary went wherever the church sent him.
8.the clergy and religious officials of a Christian denomination.
9.the Christian faith: a return of intellectuals to the church.
10.( initial capital letter) the Christian Church before the Reformation.
11.( initial capital letter) the Roman Catholic Church.
12.the clerical profession or calling: After much study and contemplation, he was prepared to enter the church.
13.a place of public worship of a non-Christian religion.
14.any non-Christian religious society, organization, or congregation: the Jewish church.
What do you think of the different meanings above? What does this word mean to you?
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The Unknowns

Part of the name of this blog is “Other Unknowns” because, besides going into fatherhood without any experience or much preparation, life is full of all kinds of unknowns and charting a course along the way. I know that there are many of us out there that are either charting a journey into unknown areas right now or have charted those journeys already and have a lot to share.

So here is your invitation: I want to start to feature people on here that have a story or an experience to share that involves charting unknown areas in your life.  It could be divorce, a new job, moving to a new city, starting a new business…anything.  I want to hear your stories and I am sure others would be encouraged by them also, we all need support as we go through this adventure we call life.

If you are interested in sharing part of your story or something you have experienced, please contact me at the email address listed in the contact section of this blog and we will talk. Let’s share in this journey together.

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